Here at work, our department is full of tea drinkers. It seems as if the pot is always boiling or at very least, always hot. Our “chocolate drawer” is actually filled with tea bags. July and August were perhaps our highest months of tea consumption, despite the heat. Even our office plants drink (cooled down,…
Category: Personal
5 de mayo
Let me just start out by saying, I know that 5 de mayo is not a huge celebration in Mexico. I realize that for the most part it’s an excuse used by most Americans to eat Mexican food and drink margaritas at discounted rates. I enjoyed it most when living in California, because there were…
Mothers
Mother’s Day 2013 may be much like any other Mother’s Day of the past. My mom will receive phone calls from her children spread all around the country, and probably a few special words from her grand kids as well. She may even get a few presents bought for her online. Although if she gets…
Radio Silence
In my absence from blogging I have been cheating myself out of this important outlet of self realization. Ironically, blogging is so powerful for me because I expect nearly no one to read it. There is a level of accountability for my words as they are public, however a limited amount of exposure allows me…
Strangers in suits
The other day after work I stopped by Target to pick up a screwdriver. And yes, it makes me feel very grown up. But the most interesting part of the experience was observing strangers and the impact it had on my memory. I saw a man, maybe late 30s or early 40s walking with his…
Baby Steps
So occasionally I oscillate between wanting to enjoy my final months of freedom, after all this may be my last chance to live by myself, and being responsible and wanting to develop good habits for my future husband. One day I’ll throw all my dirty clothes in the middle of the floor with a giggle,…
Where I Come From
I have recently moved back to the USA, and as always happens when I arrive somewhere new, I hear the dreaded question, “Where are you from?” My answer is a flat, “Great question! Um…” I never know how to answer that. I find very few people who actually do. Do you say where you were…
How to make 73 years work
A few years back I read a wonderful article aboutĀ Cutie and PopPopĀ that inspired the deepest and most sincere longing for true love. I was an amazing account of the most adorable older couple who at the time had been married for 72 years. Made famous by this unavoidable beast we all know and love, known…
You’re Gonna Miss This
Sometimes music just makes you stop and think. Today my mind was stuck on this particular song, You’re Gonna Miss This by Trace AkinsShe was staring out that window, of that SUVComplaining, saying I can’t wait to turn 18She said I’ll make my own money, and I’ll make my own rulesMamma put the car in…
Life is Short: And Don’t Forget
We all know that our time here on this earth is limited. And even more present to us is the knowledge that the time we have with those we love could be over at any minute. We know this. It is not new information. However, when we are stuck in the small (and big) stresses,…