Day 35: Silence

gratisography.com The haunting sounds of Simon & Garfunkel’s The Sound of Silence may reflect most appropriately what I was feeling last night. “Silence like a cancer grows…” Silence is powerful; it can be restorative, inspiring, unsettling, dangerous, terrifying or painful. 

Day 34: Read

I’ve seen plenty of sources citing that we don’t read anymore. While I remember this everytime I read through the comments section in magazine articles (you can’t comment on the title alone people!) there is still a fair share of reading going on. We spend hours reading through our Facebook or Twitter timelines. I’ll admit,…

Day 33: Marriage is a classroom

Today we reached a milestone. A whole year of marriage! I’m sure that now makes us experts. Tonight we sat down and chatted about what we’ve learned in this year and what our goals are for the next. As we laid out our goals and objectives I began to understand something. Marriage is a opportunity…

Day 32: Strengths

There’s a great workshop you should check out brought to us by Oprah. Hosted by Marcus Buckingham, Take Control of your Career takes 29 women through the process of discovering themselves to better enjoy their careers. One of the concepts that he brings up is that you grow the most in your strengths. He’s written whole…

Day 30 & 31: Silence & Learning

Last night we drove from Key West back to Miami. And by we I very much mean Daniel. I stayed staring out the window, at the stars nearly the whole ride. It’s amazing, when you’re driving on a bridge through the ocean, there’s just about zero light pollution to distract from the brilliance of the…

Day 29: Open your eyes

Selfishness blinds you to others’ pain. Let’s just say, I’m still learning how to be a good wife. 

Day 26, 27 & 28: Catching up

Day 26: Sometimes the most medicinal response to stress is a good cry and a strong hug.Day 27: Friendship trumps entertainment. Day 28: Excuses don’t change what did or didn’t happen; the only thing they change is perspective.

Day 25: Surprising the one next to you

As we approach our one year anniversary, one of the lessons we have learned is this: It is very hard to surprise the person you live with and share finances with. We have come to the point of sharing ideas of gifts and just yelling “surprise” for added effect. The added difficulty shouldn’t be an…

Day 24: Goals

I’m on day 24 of this end-of-the-day retrospective adventure. That’s long enough to have established a habit, right? It’s either 21 days or 3 months. That was not my lesson for today, so I don’t know. But one thing I have learned is that: Goals beget goals. I created one goal, publically, to reflect on…